being healthy but spending the rest of your life in some nursing house
or
sick ( like you can do nothing just sleep all day long ) but having family to take care of you.
i don't know what to choose.
neither one is good for me.
the first choice is all the grandpas and grandmas in some nursing house i visited early today.
some of them are still healthy, some others is sick (like what i define in second choice).
this scene make me wonder, where the hell is their family member? at least their child!
i can't imagine what person in this world could leave and do not care about their 'own' parent.
these old guys seems like in one hand they are upset and disappointed with their family.
in other hand, they still hope can spent time with their own family, not in some nursing house.
the second choice i can tell, it is my own grandma.
she's sick and getting thinner every single time i see her :(
my grandma used to be so healthy person.
she could spent all day long to do household-job and take a day-care of her grandchildren.
what could be the worst? now she can only sleep all day long.
waiting for us to give her food (sometimes she doesn't want to eat), to change her diapers, to give her bath and etc.
i don't know if she can't still feel us. cause she never speak anymore.
:(
God please blessed my grandma O:'(
anyway,
please don't spend either like that picture of old life i gave you.
be healthy, be good with your family and take a good care of yourself.
oh, btw i do some editing in my blog.
still working on the design.
*cheers* O:')
- team baksos with suster and grannies -
granny called aliang (if i'm not mistaken)
granny and me :)
